“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
Happy Friday, Brew Nation!
There is a quote I love to use with leaders: “You should be uncomfortable if you are comfortable.”
It’s a principle I’ve had to live by, because comfort is the silent killer of calling. I know this from personal experience, and my greatest moment of discomfort was also my greatest moment of breakthrough.
It was back in 2010 when I first birthed the idea of coaching my way. During a quiet reflection time at a retreat, the scripture I felt led to was John 15:5: “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” I felt God’s call to produce fruit through this new venture.
I shared the idea with my manager at the time, who thought it was fantastic but unlikely to happen within the company. Yet, I stayed. The comfort of a regular salary, healthcare, and the lack of confidence in myself—the fear of the unknown—kept me anchored to the familiar.
It wasn’t until 10 years later that God answered. I was let go during a COVID restructuring, and suddenly, I was catapulted outside my comfort zone and into the calling I had ignored for a decade. The very thing I feared became the catalyst for my greatest fruit.
The Barrier: Our Addiction to Self-Denial
Our culture has convinced us that the goal of life is maximum comfort and minimum resistance. We seek ease, convenience, and safety in every area.
But this addiction to comfort is deadly for a leader’s calling. When a challenge arises, our immediate, reflexive question is always: “Is this going to be too hard?”
The problem is, you can’t build muscle in your comfort zone. The principles of growth—physical, mental, or spiritual—demand resistance. The podcast, C-Suite for Christ, drove this point home in a powerful recent episode by showing that the Christian life is fundamentally a life of chosen discomfort.
Jesus made this clear: “Then he said to them all: ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.'” (Luke 9:23).
Following your calling requires self-denial and a daily choice to endure what is difficult. The only thing the “comfort cult” produces is spiritual timidity and unrealized potential.
The Solution: Rewiring Your Reflex with Holy GritÂ
The solution is to rewire your immediate reflex. Instead of asking, “Is this going to be too hard?”, you must learn to ask a different question: “Is this faithful?”Â
This shift is possible because of the spirit we’ve been given. 2 Timothy 1:7 is our mandate for disruption: “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”Â
- Power:Â The ability to act boldly, not timidly.Â
- Love:Â The motivation to serve others, not ourselves.Â
- Self-Control:Â The discipline to override the comfort reflex.Â
When we intentionally choose the path of discomfort and faithfulness, we unlock a powerful cycle of growth. The Apostle Paul lays out the character-building sequence that results from embracing difficulty:
“…we also glory in our sufferings, because suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” (Romans 5:3-5).
Your job as a leader is to create this process of growth—or healthy discontent for the status quo—in yourself and your team. Faith grows when you exercise it. That is why the key to breaking this addiction is momentum, built one step at a time.
Don’t overthink the massive, uncomfortable leap. Instead, ask yourself this simple question: “God, what do you want me to do this week that will stretch your faith?”Â
It might be small: finally pursuing that certification, taking a bold stand for a core value in a meeting, or launching that passion project you keep putting off. One act of obedience makes the next one easier. Over time, you start to rewire your entire reflex from comfort to commitment.
- Quote of the Week Â
“Change will occur when the displeasure of remaining the same is greater than the discomfort of the change itself.” — Coach John Gallagher
Being effective as a leader means consistently choosing discipline over distraction. It’s about deeply reflecting on what’s working, humbly learning from what hasn’t, and courageously course-correcting in relentless pursuit of uncommon growth. Leaders don’t just drift into success—they evaluate, decide, and act.
What’s a leadership lesson you’ve learned in an unexpected place?
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What you need to do:
Your Call to Action: Take One Step of Faith
The biggest barrier to growth is the one we allow ourselves to build. It’s time to take ownership of your personal and professional development by choosing discomfort for the sake of your calling.
Do you want to become a Champion of boldness?
Are you ready to stop letting fear hold you back?
This week, identify one single act of obedience that will stretch your faith or your comfort zone. Do it before next Sunday.
You’ve got the time!
You’ve got the tools!
Now it’s time to make this year your most intentional, inspiring, and uncommon year yet.
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Until next time—stay focused, stay faithful, and keep growing, Champions!
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